NCCC Tennessee (Memphis)

Joy’s Story

I’m still not very comfortable with the term “cancer survivor.” I’m forever marked, forever changed, and forever grateful…that pretty much sums up my life.

I was 38 years old, a wife, mother of three beautiful children—16, 12, and 6—at the prime of my career and about to be initiated into Alpha Kappa Alpha Incorporated, the first African American sorority. It was challenging for me to say, “I have cancer.” I consider it a wonderful blessing that surviving cancer became a part of my story.

On November 22, 2019, I was diagnosed with cervical cancer. I went to the doctor for my annual exam, and the following week received a call to come in for a biopsy. Shortly after, I was asked to return to review my test results.

I knew something was wrong. Normally, a call like that would be brief communication with good news. But everything felt like a fog when I walked into the office. My doctor informed me that I would need surgery to remove cancer cells from my cervix. He explained three surgical options, and after careful consideration, I decided to have a full hysterectomy in December to prevent any recurrence of cancer in my ovaries or uterus.

I had the surgery on December 19, 2019, and stayed in the hospital for about four days. On January 5, 2020, I received the call I had been hoping for: I was CANCER FREE. I did not have to undergo chemotherapy or radiation. I consider myself very blessed. 

I still feel shocked a little at the term “survivor,” although I am deeply grateful to be one. This journey gave me a different outlook on life, a better understanding of people, and a tremendous spirit of gratitude. I plan to maintain my health through a solid prayer life, nurturing healthy relationships, eating well, and exercising.

 

My favorite words of encouragement:

Deuteronomy 31:6 – Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.

 

I’m proud to be an example and to share my experiences with others. I look forward to supporting other cervical cancer patients and survivors as Chapter Leader.